I went ahead and told him kinda sorta. It didn’t turn out well but it didn’t turn out bad it was one of those things that was just blah. But really I couldn’t expect much because like I said the situation is not one that we can make anything out of right now anyway.  But I feel better now that it is out in the open, and I still have a friend.  Not to mention it is on the table  so if the situation does ever change we can take it from there.